Fear of stigma linked to widespread loneliness in Britain
The majority of British people have experienced loneliness and also know someone who is lonely, according to new research. In a survey, 84% of British people said they have felt lonely, with 13% feeling lonely ‘all of the time’. The research commissioned by the Campaign to End Loneliness also shows that almost two-thirds of people (64%) know someone who is lonely.
Despite the large numbers of people affected, the research suggests that loneliness is a taboo subject: 92% of respondents think that people are scared to admit that they are lonely. The research also indicates that people who feel lonely will be judged negatively: when asked ‘What do you think people imagine about those who are lonely?’ the most common responses were ‘there is something wrong with them’; ‘they are unfriendly’; and ‘it is their fault they are lonely’.
The organisation has previously found that 10% of those over the age of 65 – over one million people – feel chronically lonely (that is, all or most of the time).
Marcus Rand, director of the Campaign to End Loneliness, said:
‘The taboo and stigma around loneliness is stopping vulnerable people from opening up about their situation. This in turn makes it very difficult for local authorities and other support organisations to find the missing million older people who need our help.
'The Campaign to End Loneliness has developed a step-by-step guide to help local authorities and stakeholders identify the hidden lonely. The Missing Million: In Search of the Loneliest in our Communities helps commissioners and service providers to identify older people experiencing loneliness. It will assist frontline workers to better understand and respond to loneliness, and to engage with older people experiencing loneliness.’
Independent Age’s chief executive, Janet Morrison, said: ‘It is saddening but unfortunately not surprising to see the level of stigma and negative attitudes towards loneliness, even in some cases blaming the lonely people themselves.’
Dorothy, who turns 86 later this year, lost her husband two years ago after being his sole carer for 15 years. Dorothy said: ‘I walk with two sticks so I find it very difficult to get out by myself. I do get lonely sometimes and it’s hard to tell others about how I’m feeling, but the television is my friend. I always keep the television or the radio on to keep me company in the house.
‘Contact the Elderly’s tea parties have made a huge difference to my life. I greatly appreciate the company, and the chance to get out and see the countryside too. As I don’t have any family nearby I love spending time with the young volunteers, they are all so terribly kind.’
To find out more about the Campaign to End Loneliness visit: www.campaigntoendloneliness.org
To access the Campaign’s The Missing Million report visit: www.campaigntoendloneliness.org/the-missing-million
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